Social Media Etiquette for Muslim Teenagers

Why Social Media Etiquette Matters in Islam

In Islam, every action—online or offline—is recorded. Posts, comments, likes, shares, and private messages are all actions. Muslim teenagers must understand that digital behavior is also Islamic behavior.

“Not a word does he utter but there is a watcher near him, ready to record.” Qur’an 50:18

1. Remember Your Muslim Identity Online

A Muslim teen should never forget that you represent Islam, you reflect your family values, and you shape your own future. Before posting, ask yourself:

• Does this reflect good character (akhlaq)?
• Would I be comfortable if my parents or Allah saw this?

Islamic Tip: Your username, bio, and profile picture should reflect modesty and dignity.

2. Practice Modesty (Haya) on Social Media

Modesty is not only about clothing—it’s about speech, behavior, and intention.

For Boys and Girls:

• Avoid posting revealing or attention-seeking photos
• Avoid flirtatious captions, emojis, or comments
• Do not share private personal moments publicly

“Haya (modesty) is part of faith.” (Hadith)

3. Be Careful with Photos and Videos

Once something is posted, it never truly disappears. Avoid posting selfies for validation, trend videos that involve inappropriate gestures, or copying viral challenges without thinking.

4. Guard Your Tongue… Even Online

Islam places great importance on speech. Avoid backbiting (gheebah), mocking others, online arguments, and cancel culture/public shaming.

“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.” (Hadith)

This applies to: Comments, Tweets, Stories, and Group Chats.

5. Respect Privacy and Boundaries

Islam teaches amanah (trust). Respecting privacy is a sign of faith, even online.

• Do not share screenshots of private chats
• Do not expose someone’s mistakes
• Do not record or post others without permission

6. Avoid Haram Interactions

Unnecessary private chatting between non-mahrams can slowly lead to sin. Islam blocks doors that lead to sin before sin itself happens.

Safe Practices:

• Keep communication respectful and purposeful
• Avoid late-night private chats
• Do not share emotional or personal struggles with strangers

7. Choose Beneficial Content

Your feed shapes your heart. Your time is amanah (a trust).

8. Don’t Chase Likes and Validation

Social media rewards attention—but Islam rewards sincerity. Train your heart to seek Allah’s pleasure, not online applause.

• Likes do not define your worth
• Viral fame is temporary
• Allah’s approval is permanent

9. Balance Screen Time with Real Life

Too much social media can cause anxiety, comparison, laziness, and a weak connection with Allah.

Healthy Balance Tips:

• Set daily screen limits
• Avoid phone use before sleep
• Pray on time without distractions
• Spend time with family and books

10. Make Social Media a Source of Good Deeds

Social media can be sadaqah jariyah if used correctly. A single beneficial post may benefit someone for years.

• Share Islamic reminders
• Spread kindness and positivity
• Support good causes